Wednesday, December 24, 2025

traditions...

Traditionally, on this morning I take time to reflect on another year my dad isn't here for his birthday. 
The lessons learned from him are deep. Celebrate your birthday for the day as it's just for you.   His always was celebrated alongside family and everyone got gifts. Growing up we had birthday cake on Christmas eve.    In his later years, after the parents divorced, we'd head to a Mexican restaurant,  then head to the family home with everyone else.
For the past 20 or so years, lasagna has been the Traditional Christmas eve dinner at the Hem house. It was fast and easy and could feed 25 people with ease.    I've kept up that tradition for my husband and I.   But not this year.   I wanted something different,  something new.    
Same husband, but different meal.  Enter red wine braised short ribs.  We are spending Christmas together but he'll be working on New Year's day, which we Traditionally have Prime Rib.  So we are adapting,  compromising, and letting go of some traditions, for this year.   Lasagna will come later.

So how do I make red wine short ribs?
Here is what you need.
- short ribs (English style)
- 2 bottle red wine (dry or full bodied)
- garlic
- half onion, sliced
- thyme
- bay leaf
- salt
- pepper
Start with good short ribs from the butcher (mine came from a local farm where we order a half cow every year).   On a rack in a sheet pan, salt and pepper all sides, leave uncovered in the fridge for at least 6 hours.  Once they are air chilled, remove and let sit at room temp while you heat up a cast iron over medium heat.  Sear all pieces on each side, a few pieces at time so they aren't crowded.  Place back on the rack until all are done.  
Now I seared mine the night before, so I placed in my Dutch oven with some thyme, more pepper, garlic, bay leaf and onion and left covered overnight.  I brought the pan out to knock the chill off it while I made breakfast.  Once it was back to room temp, I added a bottle and a half of red wine.   I prefer a full bodied red, but your favorite drinking red will work, just avoid the sweet reds!
I added a sheet pan on a separate rack under the Dutch oven, and placed the Dutch oven, lid on, on the rack above.  Then I turned the oven to 250 convection bake (which is like 275).
I'll be leaving it at that temp for at least 6 hours while we are gone.  But here is my secret, my oven is wifi controlled,  so in about 4 hours, I'll increase it to 275.   Once we get home, I'll remove the lid, and increase the heat to 300 until they are tender.  Now I cannot tell you how long that will be.  I eye it, but because I'm braising and cooking over a low temp,  mine take at least 9 hours total.
These pair really well with a garlic parm mashed potato side dish, and a green vegetable like asparagus, brocolini, or Brussel sprouts.    Reserve some of the jous and make a gravy or add some extra wine and reduce to make a pan sauce to drizzle over the top.
There are a millions ways to make this, a million ways to mess it up, try it, make it your own,  Bon Appétit! 

Sunday, December 14, 2025

When it rains....

The Pacific Northwest is known for it's rain. This past week though, has been an epic amount, brought to us by an atmospheric river, a term that feels more widely used over the past decade or so. If you can imagine a flood of water being dropped from the sky, that's what it feels like.  To those of us living in the Skagit River watershed, through the upriver valley, we really felt the effect of the storm that raged. 
Me? i hunkered down with an book series on my kindle and stayed warm and dry in my "higher ground" home. I know what your next question is, what are you reading?  
Okay, okay, it's been over a year and it's time I admit it, I've joined a book fad / trend and fell into the world of romantasy. There are multiple sub-sects, there are those that mirror our world, those that are parallel, and those that are pure fantasy.  I happen to enjoy all of them, the dark, the gold, the bright, and of course they better have a good ending.  A good story is a good story, and if it has spicy bits (chili pepper ratings! 🌶🌶 🌶 🌶) even better!  Nora Robert's was my first dip imto this world, her books of magic and powerful women, and finding their true self. Heather Graham was another.  There has always been a book or so from the fantasy isles on my bookshelves, but it wasnt until I found a series on kindle, the Crescent City series and I honestly thought it was another New Orleans magic series - oh my was I wrong -  but in a deliciously good way.  Thank you Sarah J Maas!
That series opened up my world, and down the rabbit hole I went, consuming book after book, hardback, large paperback, kindle and more.   My Instagram feed lead me to follow a few other like minded folks, and my husband has not complained one bit.   I advised him it was like I was bringing back 'Between the Lines', my original book club, even though I am the only remaining member.
So what's next?  I keep kindle unlimited, I continue to read a bit every day, but I don't let it consume all of my time as the laundry won't wash and fold and put itself away.  I feel lucky I have my knight in shiny armour (even if that armour is blue collar work pants that have stains) whom I married, but he doesn't read like I do (he likes other book topics) and I am blessed to know the difference between real life and fantasy.   I can close my book, look around and see just how lucky I am.
Now I just need to find my cheater reading glasses with more magnifying power as Brimstone text is quite small.  Who needs laundry put away today? Not me.

Friday, May 2, 2025

May Flowers

The saying goes that april showers bring may flowers.  Well my rain barrel water storage is depleting fast, as the warm days needed us to use more water for our plants. I am happy to report that we've got lots of tomatoes, peppers, greens, and peas popping!
Up next is to hang all the baskets because the hummingbirds are back, and our honeybees are a buzzing.


More to come later. 

Thursday, February 6, 2025

When the winter blues hit

 I recall a meme I saw a few years ago which said something along the lines that the best cure for the winter blues was a potato gratin. Basically something filling, comforting and savory.  

I've been thinking about dishes like that lately.   I've been trying to clean out my pantry of things that I've squirrelled away for a rainy day - or midwinter, which is fast approaching.  I'm thinking roast chicken with garlic butter sauce, with a roasted potato gratin, green beans, and some cherry or blueberry hand pies   

But then my waistline may increase too much - so maybe we'll have to cut out the pie and just do baked apples.  

When midwinter approaches, I think ahead to spring, to planting anew, and what I can preserve  in the fall to make it thru the winter months.  This year I find I am out of thyme, rosemary and am running low on dried parsley, plus I am on my last jar of Dandelion Salve. 

So what am I planning on growing? How about Everything I can!    I'll keep pursuing wildcraft medicine plants, things we like to eat, use to cook, lots of herbs, some fun corn, beans, peas, squash, tomatoes, cukes, radish, carrots, and a lot of greens. 

What are you planning this year or how are  you getting thru these winter blues?



Winter Snow!

Lunch break in the garden before the snow.

New Seed!  

 


Saturday, January 4, 2025

Looking Forward in 2025

As I sit and ponder and plan this morning, my mind keeps drifting to the big lofty dreams that I have been working on for years.  My plans of adventure and seeing new places, new faces, with the best copilot by my side (or multiple and of course my hubby).

This is the year before I can put those dreams into motion.  Plans of being almost debt free, just to incur more debt seem ridiculous, but also very American.The hardest part is trying to face the fact that i need to slim down on spending, especially with how easy places like Amazon makes it to buy all the accessories needed to pursue a hobby (cider pressing, pool floats, beekeeping, and more!).  I can drone on and on about my impulsive and planned shopping habits, or remark how it seems that my bank now recognizes the store I shop at as a recurring payment, but have you seen the price of eggs? I am ever so thankful  that I am gainfully employed, that I truly enjoy what I do, and that overtime hours in the winter don't get in the way of my summer plans.

Since I tend to squirrel things away, we are doing a jua uary pantry and freezer reduction.   Using the majority of what I've stocked, canned, stored or saved for later, January is all about resourcefulness.    One example would be sewing a patch or fixing a hole on a pair of otherwise still useful, pants. Another would be making a garden plan that requires less maintenance in the early stages due to some travel plans. And, taking a look at all the subscriptions I have and cutting out the least used. 

Looking forward, I honestly don't know what will happen to the economy this year.  We are blessed to have an affordable home, and enough ambition to work hard to create a life we are proud to live. Are there things we wish we could change? Of course!  Things like a new roof and flooring,  more property, greenhouseeroof replacement,  slimmer bodies, 3 months pay in savings, figure out why I'm in constant inflammation,  better health for our parents, and last but not least, for our dogs to live longer lives.

I am not planning on creating resolutions that can be broken easily or are unattainable any longer.  
My goals for 2025 are simple.
1. Take a short walk to ease stress and clear my mind of cluttered thoughts.  This can be outside, inside, travel to, or just around the yard.
2. The big goal is spendy,  so do what you can to limit frivolous spending. 
3. Forgive.  Yourself  and others.  Don't hold onto grudges as it takes too much energy.   Doesn't mean you have to put yourself in situations where you'll be around those that you choose not to be.   Forgive and move on.
4. Focus on the now. When life becomes overwhelming,  breathe and focus on one thing for 10 to 30 seconds. 
5. Shape.  Snip away branches that hinder or would deter your focus on shaping your life towards your goals and dreams.   Example would be subscriptions that are no longer useful.
6. Be mindful.  Not only of yourself but of others around you.  
7. Spend time, not money.  Time spend with those closest doesn't need to have a monetary value.  A lunch and walk is just as rewarding as a lunch and shop.
8.  Declutter.  It's okay to donate things that could be useful to someone after it has overstayed its shelf life.  Yes I am talking books!  I am donating  a quarter of my cookbook collection as they have items I'll never cook or never will again. Same goes for old jars, candles, and things that don't hold good memories. 
9. Document.  A life well lived can be shown, and I want to document more.  Photos, videos, notes.  I do not want to be a content creator.  Nope.  I just want to inspire, reflect later in life so I can recall these memories after it seems I may forget.
10.  Just be.  Always remember you are a unique individual who can either weather a storm alone or in a community,  the choice is always yours.

We did start out our year with a great meal, laughter, and did not waste anything.

Smoked prime rib bone in roast
Green beans
Sour cream mashed potatoes
Garlic spread bread
Spinach with mushrooms 
Au just

The prime rib was devine,  smokey and perfectly seasoned with kosher salt, fresh cracked black pepper, roasted garlic, onion powder and fresh snipped rosemary.

Definitely will, repeat!