Wednesday, December 24, 2025

traditions...

Traditionally, on this morning I take time to reflect on another year my dad isn't here for his birthday. 
The lessons learned from him are deep. Celebrate your birthday for the day as it's just for you.   His always was celebrated alongside family and everyone got gifts. Growing up we had birthday cake on Christmas eve.    In his later years, after the parents divorced, we'd head to a Mexican restaurant,  then head to the family home with everyone else.
For the past 20 or so years, lasagna has been the Traditional Christmas eve dinner at the Hem house. It was fast and easy and could feed 25 people with ease.    I've kept up that tradition for my husband and I.   But not this year.   I wanted something different,  something new.    
Same husband, but different meal.  Enter red wine braised short ribs.  We are spending Christmas together but he'll be working on New Year's day, which we Traditionally have Prime Rib.  So we are adapting,  compromising, and letting go of some traditions, for this year.   Lasagna will come later.

So how do I make red wine short ribs?
Here is what you need.
- short ribs (English style)
- 2 bottle red wine (dry or full bodied)
- garlic
- half onion, sliced
- thyme
- bay leaf
- salt
- pepper
Start with good short ribs from the butcher (mine came from a local farm where we order a half cow every year).   On a rack in a sheet pan, salt and pepper all sides, leave uncovered in the fridge for at least 6 hours.  Once they are air chilled, remove and let sit at room temp while you heat up a cast iron over medium heat.  Sear all pieces on each side, a few pieces at time so they aren't crowded.  Place back on the rack until all are done.  
Now I seared mine the night before, so I placed in my Dutch oven with some thyme, more pepper, garlic, bay leaf and onion and left covered overnight.  I brought the pan out to knock the chill off it while I made breakfast.  Once it was back to room temp, I added a bottle and a half of red wine.   I prefer a full bodied red, but your favorite drinking red will work, just avoid the sweet reds!
I added a sheet pan on a separate rack under the Dutch oven, and placed the Dutch oven, lid on, on the rack above.  Then I turned the oven to 250 convection bake (which is like 275).
I'll be leaving it at that temp for at least 6 hours while we are gone.  But here is my secret, my oven is wifi controlled,  so in about 4 hours, I'll increase it to 275.   Once we get home, I'll remove the lid, and increase the heat to 300 until they are tender.  Now I cannot tell you how long that will be.  I eye it, but because I'm braising and cooking over a low temp,  mine take at least 9 hours total.
These pair really well with a garlic parm mashed potato side dish, and a green vegetable like asparagus, brocolini, or Brussel sprouts.    Reserve some of the jous and make a gravy or add some extra wine and reduce to make a pan sauce to drizzle over the top.
There are a millions ways to make this, a million ways to mess it up, try it, make it your own,  Bon Appétit! 

Sunday, December 14, 2025

When it rains....

The Pacific Northwest is known for it's rain. This past week though, has been an epic amount, brought to us by an atmospheric river, a term that feels more widely used over the past decade or so. If you can imagine a flood of water being dropped from the sky, that's what it feels like.  To those of us living in the Skagit River watershed, through the upriver valley, we really felt the effect of the storm that raged. 
Me? i hunkered down with an book series on my kindle and stayed warm and dry in my "higher ground" home. I know what your next question is, what are you reading?  
Okay, okay, it's been over a year and it's time I admit it, I've joined a book fad / trend and fell into the world of romantasy. There are multiple sub-sects, there are those that mirror our world, those that are parallel, and those that are pure fantasy.  I happen to enjoy all of them, the dark, the gold, the bright, and of course they better have a good ending.  A good story is a good story, and if it has spicy bits (chili pepper ratings! 🌶🌶 🌶 🌶) even better!  Nora Robert's was my first dip imto this world, her books of magic and powerful women, and finding their true self. Heather Graham was another.  There has always been a book or so from the fantasy isles on my bookshelves, but it wasnt until I found a series on kindle, the Crescent City series and I honestly thought it was another New Orleans magic series - oh my was I wrong -  but in a deliciously good way.  Thank you Sarah J Maas!
That series opened up my world, and down the rabbit hole I went, consuming book after book, hardback, large paperback, kindle and more.   My Instagram feed lead me to follow a few other like minded folks, and my husband has not complained one bit.   I advised him it was like I was bringing back 'Between the Lines', my original book club, even though I am the only remaining member.
So what's next?  I keep kindle unlimited, I continue to read a bit every day, but I don't let it consume all of my time as the laundry won't wash and fold and put itself away.  I feel lucky I have my knight in shiny armour (even if that armour is blue collar work pants that have stains) whom I married, but he doesn't read like I do (he likes other book topics) and I am blessed to know the difference between real life and fantasy.   I can close my book, look around and see just how lucky I am.
Now I just need to find my cheater reading glasses with more magnifying power as Brimstone text is quite small.  Who needs laundry put away today? Not me.